One question, answered from the books
What do I do when every lane is losing?
Reduce volatility. When every lane is losing, the game is not asking you to be a hero, it is asking you to stop the bleeding. Farm first. Take every camp on time, concede the objectives you cannot contest before the fight starts, and refuse every coinflip. You cannot help a lane that is already dead, and you cannot outplay three fed lanes at once. What you can do is stay relevant while your opponents get bored, because most comeback windows are not earned, they are donated. Your job is to still be strong enough to punish the donation when it comes.
The decision, as a picture
What it looks like in a real game
You are 0/3 before ten minutes and the chat is melting down. The play is not a Smite steal and it is not grouping mid to force something, anything, please. The play is your camps, on time, every time, while their fed top laner starts chasing kills through your jungle instead of ending. Fifteen minutes later he has bought you a Baron with his boredom.
The concept: Volatility and the neutral box
Start Disciplined handles the deficit as a systems problem, and Tilt Proof handles the part of it that lives in your hands: the last game has already happened, and teammate panic is not something you are required to inherit.
"When behind, reduce volatility."
"Most comeback windows are created by enemy impatience."